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A birthday poem courtesy of my mom…
Twenty-nine has come so soon
you still have stuff left in your room
At fifty-nine inches you’re just complete
right down to your size six feet
In a VW Beetle with your foot to the pedal
you’ve criss crossed this country and you should get a gold medal
For each adventure you were gung ho
North Palm, Miami, Las Vegas, Ohio
“The Facebook & YouTube expert” traveled incognito
Here’s hoping you landed in Columbus and not Toledo
I am sure the job will monopolize
Calls home will be few don’t apologize
Be sure to send us your press release
Looking forward to Christmas when our joy will increase
A big birthday and fancy job in the same year
I’m so proud of you, should I tear or cheer?
Love, Mom
Here’s to the best ride around the sun yet! This year, I was lucky enough to celebrate my birthday in several states with a few very special people. In the end, the actual day was spent in a new city with my Mom. I’m lucky to have a Mom who flies anywhere for birthdays 🙂 I wouldn’t have wanted to spend 29 any other way.
For me, 2011 is about a year of change, fun and new experiences. With that in mind, I decided to create my own adventure, 1 Year, 10 Projects, 100 Discoveries. This post is part of that project. You can see all 10 Scares here and the entire project here. Enjoy the experiences, I sure am!
One of my favorite quotes is:
“How does one become a butterfly?” she asked.
“You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar.”
I hate change. It’s uncomfortable. It’s unsettling. It’s scary. Yet, I know it’s the only way to get better, to get ahead. In essence, it’s the only way to become a “butterfly”.
Knowing that, change is always in my plans. I know that it must be done and once past the initial uncomfortable zone, it will be for the best.
With that in mind, I pushed myself to make not only a career change, but also an address change. After six years in the same industry, things were getting mechanical. I was in the, “that’s the way it’s always done” rut and I could do what had always been done in my sleep. I knew all the players and I had soaked up a lot of their knowledge. Granted, there is always more knowledge to soak up, but I thought that it was time to leave.
Leave I did.
Unbeknownst to me, saying you’re leaving and signing the paperwork to do so is a lot easier than actually doing it. When the reality sets in, you realize that you’re in a foreign city with no one, nothing and no idea who to email 🙂
An old boss and dear friend always warned me that starting over in a new city would be tough. Since I had done it before, I didn’t think so. But, I forgot. I had forgotten how long it took to build my Las Vegas network. I forgot how long it takes to gain people’s trust. I forgot how long it takes me to navigate a city without getting lost.
Right now, I’m still in the stage of change that I hate. I’m scared. For me, I know in this situation, this phase of change will last at lease three, maybe six months. I just have to hold out until that bubble breaks. Why? Because the things that are the hardest are usually the most rewarding.
Steve said his own eugology best. There are no words. But, there is and has been an amazing outpouring of expression. Steve, may we all be as bold as you.
If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right. It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart. Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.
– Steve Jobs (via peacesinglove)
For me, 2011 is about a year of change, fun and new experiences. With that in mind, I decided to create my own adventure, 1 Year, 10 Projects, 100 Discoveries. This post is part of that project. You can see all 10 Scares here and the entire project here. Enjoy the experiences, I sure am!
I made jokes that not finishing meant that I would get to the wining and dining faster. Secretly, I was scared. Secretly, I knew that if I didn’t finish, I would be crushed. When I picked up my race bib and discovered I was in Corral D (one of the last), I got even more nervous. Corral D meant that I wouldn’t have a very big start from the end of the pack. Which in my mind translated to: there’s no leeway for the 16 minute pace.
Luckily, with a few hours left, my nerves settled in. Whatever happened, happened. It probably helped that the boyfriend came with me to the start and I knew he’d be at the finish too. He was one of the few spectators (and the only from our group) that rode the bus and hung out with the runners in the queuing area. While others chilled out at their hotels or got a jump start at Epcot, he hung out with me. To say it meant a lot would be an understatement.
At 10pm on the nose, the first runners in Disney’s Wine & Dine Half Marathon were off! The energy was high, the course was fun and the amount of runners was absolutely staggering… I never did see the end of the runners.
This is 13.1 things I remember about the race:
And… 13.1: I FINISHED!
Hi, I’m a self proclaimed commitment-phobe. But, I’m also one that is working very hard to change. Honestly, it’s one of my toughest struggles. But, I am proud to say it is one that I am chipping away at slowly but surely. One day, when I tell my kids of my fear of commitment they will just laugh and say, “No way, not you!”
With the commitment, 1 Year, 10 Projects, 100 Discoveries, I’m working to show myself that commitments are like trains; it doesn’t matter where they’re going. What matters is deciding to get on. Discoveries “#60-69″ are about commitments and plans. This post is part of that project. You can see all 10 commitments here and the entire project here. Focus on the plans, I sure am!
In the midst of Boot Camp and completing my first 5k in a long time, I was pumped. In fact, I was so pumped that when I stumbled on a magazine ad for Disney’s Wine & Dine Half Marathon, I thought, you can’t beat this race as a first half marathon memory. Running through two Disney theme parks, characters along the race course and ending at Epcot’s Wine & Dine festival? Nope, it doesn’t get much better of a combination.
I took the plunge and signed up. Then, I convinced my best friend to do the same.
Signed up is such an easy phrase to write. But, I must explain. I signed up in April… for an October race. AKA a race that was SEVEN months away. Big deal you say? Not for me. Before this project, I would have never signed up for something that far in advance. “What if my training went awry?” “What if I wasn’t in Las Vegas then and had to rebook airline tickets?” “What if I had a new job and I couldn’t get the time off?” “What if, what if, what if” were always the thoughts running through my head. I took a (really) deep breath, and pushed away all those thoughts. I even got a little crazy and invited my new boyfriend (at the time) to come along (yep, I had to lay down when I heard what I did too). I told myself, if he wanted to come, great, let him buy the plane ticket. And, if we weren’t together by October, well, the plane ticket was his to deal with.
As things always go, those seven months didn’t quite go as planned. Life happened. I got sick. I traveled, A LOT. I forgot how hot Las Vegas summers were and how hard it was to motivate yourself to run in the unbearable heat. By the time October 1 (half marathon day) came around, the longest run I had ever done was 5 miles… four months ago.
For this race, you had to keep a 16 minute pace or they would “sweep” you off the course. I kept telling myself even if I walked the whole thing, I could still finish. But honestly, I wasn’t sure. In all my practices, Nike+ said my run/walk average was 17 minutes. Nevertheless, the boyfriend and I boarded a plane for a fun-filled three days in Disney.
The race results? Well, that’s a story for another post 🙂
Every once in awhile, marketers beautifully combine the medium’s location with creative to create brilliant advertising. The below billboard is one that sits outside the Las Vegas airport as you’re leaving the parking garage. It’s one of my favorite.
As I like to say, every time I return to Vegas Steve is always the first to greet me. It’s a good feeling. Amazingly, these two words and one signature pull on my heart strings more than any other billboard in the city.
Kudos Wynn.
Huxley said, “Memories are a man’s private literature.” Memories are private and you never know which ones will be picked up, stored away and treasured. In 1 Year, 10 Projects, 100 Discoveries, ten of the discoveries are memories- fun, sad, happy, I’m not sure what types there will be, but I do know that they will all be treasured. This post is part of that project. You can see all 10 memories here and the entire project here. Enjoy the memories, I am!
After living in Las Vegas for six years, the lights started to fade. While The Strip always held magic, working where everyone else played took some of the tourist magic away. The lights, the sounds, the food, the amazing architecture, the phenomenal shows and concerts that were in town every weekend started to become a part of everyday life. To say that I took it all for granted would be an understatement.
Yesterday, for the first time in a long time, I got to experience The Strip through the eyes of a tourist. This wasn’t just any tourist. This was someone who had never been to Las Vegas. This was also someone who has been my dearest family friend since the day I was born. He’s also someone who is amazingly perceptive and sees the world like no one else I know.
With camera in hand, we walked about a third of The Strip. Every few moments, he’d stop and take pictures. He’d gasp in awe. Sometimes, he’d even stop to take pictures of things I had stopped seeing. I forgot how beautiful or unique they were to someone who had never seen them before.
His favorite (and still mine) were the Bellagio Fountains. We stopped and watched them twice through. To this day, they are my favorite part of the Las Vegas Strip. They never get old or boring. Some nights, I’ve even sat and watched them six times through.
These days, I have few friends who have never been to Vegas. I have even fewer who would allow me to tag along for their first time. And, I only have one that sees the world the way he does. Last night, was a memory and a reminder that will last a long time to come.
Are you ready for a secret? Promise not to tell anyone? Okay, here goes… don’t tell… I’m naive and still have many life lessons ahead of me, both big and small. In essence, 1 Year, 10 Projects, 100 Discoveries is actually 100 lessons. But, this project of 10 lessons is about ones that hit me over the head, ones that maybe others already know and ones that will impact my life on a semi-daily basis. You can see all 10 Lessons here and the entire project here. Enjoy the learnings, I am!
When people come back from Europe, they talk about the gorgeous sites, the incredible food and the culture. But, for me, my biggest takeaway from Europe was the pace of life. For me, slowing down and not rushing to the end destination is tough. While Europe certainly helped, it’s a tough mindset to keep constant (at least for me). I find myself always trying to speed things up.
Six years ago, I took a cross country road trip and rushed through the drive as quickly as possible. I think I barely even stopped to enjoy the Grand Canyon. After arriving at my destination, I realized that the rush wasn’t worth it. I vowed that on my next road trip (whenever that may be) I wouldn’t rush to my destination.
On my latest road trip, I didn’t rush. I stopped at whatever roadside attractions I wanted to. I took a morning and went to a Celtic Festival and Yoga Rocks the Park when I stopped in Denver, Colorado. Both were fun, relaxing and great experiences. They made the road trip that much more rich and memorable. The best part? I got to my destination, relaxed, not too sore and ready to take on the day. The lesson? Slowing down only had upsides; no downsides. Slowing down didn’t negatively impact my timeline. Slowing down provided me with memories and stories that will last a lifetime. And my favorite lesson? Sometimes, when you slow down you really do get ahead.